Moni Read

Happy two years as an active Creator! I am feeling so Happy & grateful. Thank you, dear people, for making it possible for me to stay here and for giving me healthy hope about what I have to do next. 

Before these positive vibes, I had also gone through a journey of negative vibes and self-doubt and felt like a loser several times, where my patience was tested badly.

When you feel almost everyone who has started their journey with you is already on their next milestone, and you are the only one lagging, you feel separated & lose the sense of belonging to that Community. 

Because things are not the same as they were before. And you are not alone, who facing this problem. People often leave the less successful people behind because of many reasons. 

However, I am grateful to meet amazing people here who decided to follow me, connect with me, listen to me, read my content & support me as I have never thought.

But on the other side, I have lost a lot of connections too! I lost some. After all, I had written long comments, & lost some because I failed to comment. I lost some because I was still trying to connect genuinely when they now have many 1000s of other people like me; & I lost some because I could not reply instantly. So, the community I was trying to build was not based on win-win situations. 

And because of this, I was Trapped in fear of investing time in people only to see them go when they hit a particular milestone! And this was continuously draining my energy. 

And this is how I am getting the motivation to diversify my source of income and build other assets! And I am finally trying to balance being a User & Creator. 

We have to reach our next milestone - multiple digits of Money earning instead of just followers! Because they can not pay bills on just the number of followers. 

Now, how can I be more thankful to these fantastic People? Thanks for being part of my Creators Journey! 

The trust you have put in someone has a very deep connection with loyalty. Then it does not matter if it is personal life or professional life. 

Well, my dear reader, I admire the efforts; you have put into someone. But still, I would like to tell you that it is not always your fault if things do not work out. 

Often people do not value precious connections. They manipulate the real meanings of conversations, and people & they destroy valuable & precious Relations. 

Sometimes, we have to move ahead in life without many regrets. In fact, leave those painful memories, incidents, and regrets behind. 

It is totally okay if things do not work out. It is totally OK if you still tried to give several chances to something or someone when 1000s of people were telling you that you are making a huge mistake blindly. 

They were there to explain to you based on their experiences for your betterment. 

Okay! Now you have a broken heart, bad mental health, and sleepless nights. 

Now what? 

It is totally okay to execute another plan if the previous one fails. It is totally okay to make the present beautiful, regardless of the painful past. 

Though Loyalty is loyalty & it does not need any particular day as a reminder & to cherish the moments and precious Loyal people. 

I was a chubby but healthy kid. You have probably observed people whose faces turn Red when they laugh (like a tomato). 

Childhood & teenage is a stage where we are less or not stressed at all about Life; if we are, we ignore it because moving ahead is our ultimate step.

But the last few years were full of ups & downs. I have quickly lost weight because of city & hostel life, and I quickly gained it in the last one and a half years (lockdown, & then homemade food). Indian moms serve more when they feel they are not looking fit & strong. Probably I used to eat more when I used to feel stressed, or I used to eat more often as a carefree girl.

As we focus more on career life, we ignore our sitting hours, eyes, and physical & mental health! It happened to me too. Being an engineering student, screen time is a part of your life! 

And mainly, when focusing more on Artificial Intelligence, you have to focus more and more on the screen. Also, when you have to type and create content for your lovely readers, it results in fewer breaks for eyes & body and more stress.

So, I hope you can understand how unhealthy habits we develop or when we start sacrificing our health for careers.

It was last month, and I decided to stay fit. And you know what? I am working on it. I focused on Changing my diet foods eating habits & trying to stick to my sleeping routine. And I got this book: The New Me. And here I would like to share its review with you guys!

This book is so insightful and packed in 80 pages. The value & knowledge is simple & short, still overflowing. What I would like to say is Fewer words - more sense!

One day, the Author realized that he now had to take medications. And when he realized if he started taking them, there would be no going back, He was concerned, serious & more active about his health.

He took 90 days of challenges, and he found that after 90 days, he is fit & fine according to all medical tests, and he doesn't need medications now.

So, in this book, he has shared how to set up this three-month challenge, what we have to do, what not, eating habits, food, diets, minor things like sleeping habits & drinking water, etc. And much more.

So I required this book, so I am not saying how insightful this is as a book lover. I am sharing how much value it is, according to a person who is now on her health-fitness Journey! I hope to share some behind the scenes about my fitness Journey soon!

Recommended To: those who are trying to take their physical health seriously.