Today, it's all about You! Here is a collection of 7 Amazing Tweets that Can help you to manage yourself better. Because in this world of 8 Billion People, You also matter!

7 Wonderful Reminders, You Forget Soon!

The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.

From: How to win friends and influence people!

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) June 28, 2022

The reason people suffer regularly is because most people suck at listening & understanding!

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 6, 2022

Become your own best friend 🤗

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 16, 2022

Some people stand by you in your darkest hour, while others walk away; only a select few march towards you and become even closer friends.

—Excerpt from Only time will tell

— Vishal agarwal (@anytimereader) July 20, 2022

Most common question people ask about is Mental health!

There is help available!
And you should Take it! 😊

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 12, 2022

No one is born an expert.
Everyone tried & learned with practice & time.

So, don't give up. Give yourself time & practice for improvement.

— Muskan Syal (@Muskansyal16) July 18, 2022

Try to exercise/ walk daily, doesn't matter if you can do it for 10 minutes or 60 minutes

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 19, 2022

If you understand these, it can help you a lot. Go over it again and start investing in yourself too! All the best!

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People, situations, circumstances, experiences, pain, bullying, and several things have made you stronger! 

You are strong now, and it’s not your fault! And there is no going back! 

Women tolerate abuse because of emotional vulnerability. - Gul Panag 

Before moving ahead, I would like to tell you that it may contain some mature content. If you are uncomfortable or do not understand such things, kindly do not read further. 

Contents

1. Strong Woman 
2. Strong Woman, Strong Man 
3. A strong woman with an Average man 
4. Imbalance in Personality and Relationships 
5. Why strong girls fall for bad boys 
6. Why does a man go for a woman who does not use her brain much 
7. Myth of beauty 
8. How wicked women are good at tuning men on their fingers 

1. Strong Woman

Dear Strong Woman!

If you are strong, It’s not your fault!

But do not let others use you in the name of strength, tolerance, and patience.

Be it in common relation with friends, colleagues, romantic, or any other form.

You are strong, and you might find it normal or can tolerate the unnecessary ego and drama in your relations, but If you allow them to get away with it once, you are telling them they can get away with it every time.

It is a harsh experience for several strong girls, and more friction comes from their family members or guardians. Sometimes from parents too!

So, I hope you understand the importance of raising your voice!

2. Strong Woman, Strong Man

It might seem like they are made for each other initially, but it is not after some months.

A Strong woman, who is emotionally, & financially independent, will struggle to figure out a balance of power over her partner because he doesn’t want to feel weak. He wants her to be submissive because of his strength. So he continues his attempts to claim dominance in their relationship.

Girls are taught to be a caretaker, and compassionate women, who have to sacrifice their will & desire for their partner.

So, she ended up struggling more.

3. Strong woman with an Average man

No matter how successful or independent they are, women become victims of their idea of a perfect fairytale life, while men often become abusive to overcome their insecurities.

Such Men can repeatedly humiliate you in front of their friends, family members, relatives, or any 3rd person.

So, she ended up struggling more.

4. Imbalance in Personality and Relationships

When people have a good image in the outside society, their only space to let out imperfection is their own home.

So, If he is a nice guy to society, he’ll let out all his frustration at home. He can be violent beyond expectation.

He gets violent if women do not work according to his will, demand, habits, taste, and control.

So, she ended up struggling more.

5. Why strong girls fall for bad boys

Women feel that bad boys (not in the sense of character or criminal-minded person) will protect them from the outside world.

Why does it happen?

Even the most intelligent girl can lose her mind to her heart

Results

Such men take advantage of the vulnerability of women who crave a home, family, and other domestic bliss.

So, she ended up struggling more.

6. Why does a man go for a woman who does not use her brain much

If a man is wise, the lady feels proud of his man.

But, if the lady is wise, a man does not always feel proud. She becomes a new competition for his mind. And he might get insecure, or he will start looking for other flaws in her. This will imbalance the relationship.

Men are strong, intelligent, and imaginative, while women are physically weak and known for not-so-wise decisions or often emotional decisions.

All relationships go through cycles and phases. The honeymoon period doesn’t last forever. Work stress and family obligations can get in the way.

And in all this, he would not like an interruption from the woman, who would like to create mental pressure on him.

So, they go for women who do not use their brains much.

Women let men work for them, think for them, and take on their responsibilities. When a man feels like a king, at least in front of his woman, it boosts his ego.

So, a man goes for a woman who does not use her brain much.

If she is smart, she doesn’t use it much in front of her man intentionally. If she used it, she ended up struggling more.

7. Myth of beauty

People say that beauty will help you to keep your man in place. And they define beauty as a beautiful face and a perfect body figure.

Poets and sometimes Inspirational & motivational writers tell you that outer beauty doesn’t matter.

Which is nowhere the complete truth. 

The beauty of thought and inner beauty also matter, along with outer beauty.

Ignoring a significant factor is like missing an essential element in the Science lab, whose output will be unexpected.

The fact is:

Where the beauty of the face can help with short-term satisfaction.

It’s the beauty of thoughts (compatibility) and inner beauty (purity of heart) that helps keep the relationship in place for the long term.

And all three are essential in the necessary ratio!

8. How wicked women are good at tuning men on their fingers

Have you ever wondered why most men prefer the nastier girl to date?

She is clever and wicked. Who is innocent, beautiful, and glamorous by her face and looks for the outside world. Who can be dangerous & devil by heart?

According to psychologists and therapists, such women have had unfortunate learning experiences, especially about men. So, they developed a manipulative approach to dominate and control the men around them.

They understand how much a man will surrender to pursue sexual access.

They understand how to make him feel that there is no friction and that the man controls the relationship.

There are so many secrets only they can understand and know about men, along with the therapists and relationship counselors.

Ultimately, a man does not feel safe to show his vulnerability for one or more reasons to their partner, who deserves it. And wicked women ended up tuning them.

So, a strong woman ended up suffering.

Resources:

Good Men project, Firstpost, observation, experiences of surrounding, books based on relationships written by counselors, and therapists, conversations with several other strong women who are either married or in Relationships.

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I want to share because I’ve learned this from the behavior of people in my surroundings, going through the ups & downs of my life & the several other women I’ve interacted with in the Journey!

If you understand these, it can help you a lot. Go over it again, take your decisions with wisdom & overcome your weaknesses! All the best! 

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Heal wounds and heal the world! Let us talk about healing today! What is healing?

After reading articles and posts of trusted creators, I have realized that when people start feeling that their silence can be heard in this loud world, they start feeling good and comfortable, and that is how their healing journey begins.

It is not that everyone is 100% perfect. Everyone has their wounds, cuts, and scars, and people are looking for solutions to their problems.

In the last few days, I have realized that many people who need solutions to problems confuse the expertise for good solutions with the outer look. Like if they observe good graphic posts, then they misunderstand the content provided in its quality content and start considering it as the solution to their problem, which is not accurate.

Quality content is something that resonates with your heart and soul. You can hear the voice of a creator in your head, and you can feel those emotions in your heart; this is why a piece of content seems quality content for you.

They feel resonating with your thoughts, and that is how the flow of positivity transforms toward you, and that is how the healing begins. Well, I am not an expert on healing, but after passing through the ups and downs of my life in the last five years, I can say that sometimes it's ok not to be ok.

One day we heal; another day, we suffer. One day we are trying to do our best. Another day people are trying to break us, and the cycle runs continuously. No one is perfectly healed. People have to live the life journey instead of just surviving somehow. 

People have to live together. That's how they can heal together and grow together.

Do not be selfish, do not shut out meaningful conversations, or ignore important things.

You know, by doing such things, you are only creating boundaries in your relations. By doing such things, you are only trying to separate or push those people who care for you. It is ok to feel hurt by other people's words. The only thing we can do is stop expecting from them. Everyone has a different mindset. If they want to see perfection in you, then make sure that they also seem perfect in your eyes. If not, then don't take their words to your heart. You need better people in your life. No one is perfect. 

People need love, kindness, and support. Everyone's needs are different. That is why compatibility matters a lot. Give your 100 percent to the people you feel your silence can be heard. You need people who can support you, who can help you to move ahead and to live happily and enjoy this beautiful life instead of just surviving somehow.

What are your thoughts about the healing?

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Social media influencers in marketing need more mental health awareness!

If a particular thing has some great advantage, then on the other side, there may be disadvantages too. Excess of everything is harmful. So keeping these things in mind, this blog post is designed, and it is about a few worst things related to social media.

Social media Influencers and Creators, Mental health

1. Lack of proper guidance.

Proper Guidance is necessary at every stage of life. So it also plays an important role when it comes to social media. If not, the outcomes will be only: a waste of time and energy. Think what can be the results; if someone may give you the exact roadmap of traveling, it'll be easier to reach the destination, right? The same thing is also applicable here for creators. That's why search for those people who can give you proper guidance. And do not take it from every random person unaware of his life.

2. Few honest feedbacks.

Honest feedbacks are necessary for great success. But those who provide honest feedback are very rare. If you ever find out about them, keep them closer to yourself. Maybe sometimes, you may feel like, probably your work is perfect, but still, it may need a lot of analysis, and that's why honest feedbacks are necessary.

Also, keep the logical brain active. Any random person can give you feedback or suggestion with flirty, cheesy, and attractive lines and emojis. Now it does not mean that feedback is genuine and good for you always. I have observed many genuine people whose intentions and words speak more than most famous and emotional emojis and buttering. Their honesty is more heartwarming rather than comments left to show off or to manipulate.

3. Irrelevant suggestions.

Often people start giving random suggestions, and they can divert your mind from actual goals. They will provide every piece of unexpected guidance, except that one which you need in your life to grow more.

4. Every follower is not your fan.

If you are trying to measure your growth through the number of followers and likes, then this is not the actual growth. It is not necessary that each follower wants good things for you every time. Also, most people are temporarily on your followers' list too. So stop considering them as your fam. Maybe there can be spammers and detectives as well. Who wants to keep a sharp eye on your activities intentionally? So it is not necessary to share things about your personal life publicly. Try to maintain a safe distance from those who provoke you to post about your problems publicly. 

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5. The unbalanced ratio of users and creators.

Social media is a potent tool meant to consume and create content. Even those at the top of the list of creators are also users and audiences. They also do likes and comments on posts of their niche and healthy competitors. So the simple conclusion is - If you want to be a creator, try to be a user first. Else who is going to check out your content?

Nowadays, social media is also tough day by day. And it is keeping a sharp eye on your activities too. So try to keep your activities as much as humanly you can, instead of robot behavior.

6. Data insecurity.

The biggest issue is the insecurity of data. Selling of data sucks those whose information gets leaked. Even nowadays, people have started stealing pics and later using them for public harassment by doing alterations either through graphic designing or simply a little bit of editing.

7. Scroll, scroll, scroll

Your audience is crucial to your success for you. Right? But the attraction time is very low, often 3-8 seconds. And this is when you can hold them on your posts or videos. Probably this information may help you to save time by next time, whichever you give, to design every single post and in the editing of every video. You can understand the pain, but users do not.

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8. If you are a creator, you have less time to consume the data of other creators.

This is the most common mistake, often because of lack of time and sometimes because you do not want to help the other fellow creators because of fear of competition. You may satisfy yourself, but it may also negatively affect you.

9. No target audience.

When we have not fixed any particular niche, we have a scattered audience. And this is the main reason behind the lower engagement also. Maybe you have observed many people having followers in thousands, but their engagement ratio is sometimes even less than 0.1 percent. I watched this thing when I received DM from an account that has more than 6000 followers but less than even six likes on almost every post.

10. Social media addiction.

Being a creator, you may have high hope for success from your audience too. And this is going to make you addicted to social media. How many hours are you spending on one social media platform? Check it out today. Later check out the total time you spend on all social media platforms you are active on!

11. People are ready to take advantage.

This is for those creators who have a good heart or are habitual in forgiving people. If you want to achieve great heights with happiness, keep your goodness only for those who deserve it. Not everyone deserves it. You have to learn about it, where you have to be good, and where you can use your attitude or say a big No to those who are there only to use you. But be humble enough until you don't know people's intentions.

12. More self-image concern.

Often I have observed many people who try to be extra friendly to strangers. Do not reveal the best side of the heart to everyone. It is ok if you are the same in your personal life, but if not, then do not try to live a double-standard life. You may be fed up soon with it, resulting in losing your inner Peace.

13. Emotional side effects.

Tough competition, getting more minor results in comparison to input, and the negativity you receive on social media about your content. These things may create emotional issues. It does not matter how hard Hearted you try to seem, but they affect you. Few feel it less, and few up to more extent.

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14. High suicidal rates.

This is so common nowadays, but people ignore this thing generally. But social media can be the primary cause of most suicidal cases.

15. The ratio of real followers/ audience is low.

You have to search for genuine people, and they are hardly 1 % to 5%. Build a real relationship with them. You can find them out through their actions, not communication, as nowadays, many people are so good at manipulation. So keep a closer eye, maybe it may take a longer time to find them out, but you have to keep your patience level. Who knows how your mutual discussion can result in excellent outcomes of ideas and later grand success?

16. Uncontrollable cyberbullying.

This is at its highest peak, and it seems it is uncontrollable. Maybe people start it for fun or to pull down someone publicly. It later seems like the most unwanted problem of our life. This problem does not even stop here. People target you intentionally and try to manipulate the meaning of your messages and comments! Fix this in your mind your messages in chats are not always between two people. It doesn't matter how much respect you give to that person; still, one day, you probably find it out that your conversations were shared almost everywhere.

And if they shared by manipulative purpose or misrepresentation of your character, this is a serious offense, even more dangerous than hateful comments. You do not need to maintain relations with people who are there to harm your dignity and self-respect.

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17. Competition.

Competition is there in the market, and already many people are struggling because of it. It results in frustration and jealousy generally. Healthy competition is necessary also, but one which can support you, not that which results in envy and depression. Stop comparing yourself to others. You can be your best competitor.

18. Jealousy.

Jealousy is the evil root of destruction. Unintentionally people start feeling jealous of other creators, and they start spreading hate and negativity for them. Maybe they forget that they may look fantastic for a few moments, but later, they will harm themselves only by doing so.

19. Negativity. 

If you are a creator who posts things related to Motivation, inspiration, hope, and good things, then you are getting a lot of DM's:- related to negativity about you, your thinking, differences in your review, and many more things. Sometimes it results in anxiety and depression, and emotional heartbreaks too.

To keep it short, only 19 points are discussed here. If your response is excellent, I'll post the second part soon.

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