Sometimes there are things and mistakes we keep doing just because either we are good at heart or we care a lot for some people. ~ Monika Singh 

Often we are ready to suffer in silence with anxiety and negativity. But we never try to think of the other perspective and the reality. 

So, here is a collection of 7 Empathetic threads with 21 Key Lessons, in the form of a unique Book! 

How Emotion, People, and Success Fooled You by Monika Singh (Paperback)

Now, it is available for everyone in multiple formats: Kindle Library, Kindle Unlimited, Paperback, and Hardcover. 

In the Pre-launch, People love it. So, I’m super excited & grateful for all the support and people who never fail to amaze me. 

You can read it on any device (Kindle adjustment supported), including holding the paperback in your hands. 

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Why should you get it?

1. No Fluff, no unnecessary dragging!
2. Direct on Important points.
3. From innocent people to Smartest, there’s something you’ll find helpful and insightful.
4. Explore them to understand your people, and keep them close to you.
5. Read and learn at your own pace.
6. Kindle Format: 232 pages
7. Paperback & Hardcover Format: 158 pages
8. Reading Time: 60–240 minutes.

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The woman who loves you can enhance your creativity, can inspire you to heights you have never dreamed of. And she asks nothing. She simply wants your love, which is her basic right. ~ Osho. 

Love Month is here, and so is this special post about women and relationships. This post is part 2 of the previous post realities you should know about women, which you can read after reading this. 

Basic understanding is the foundation of good relations more than capability, right or wrong things. Whether it’s toward a family member, your parents, siblings, spouse, or other loved ones.

So here are some powerful lines by Osho to help you understand more about the Women, from The Book —

The Book of Women: a celebration of women and the female spirit.

32 quotes about women — The Book Of Woman

1. The woman is always more like a child, more full of wonder than man. 

2. Whenever a woman listens, she hears more deeply, more intimately, more lovingly. But a man is very resistant, alert, afraid that he may be influenced, and hurt if his knowledge is not supported.

3. This has been my experience all over the world — that the woman listens, and you can see the glitter of wonder in her eyes. It is not superficial, its roots are deep into her heart.

4. Nine months she suffers, the birth of the child she suffers — and what does the man do? He is not concerned at all about what the consequence will be for the woman.

5. She is constantly living in one season — pain and pain. The seasons don’t change from summer to winter, or to rain. The woman’s life is really hard.

6. Because the woman has been dominated, tortured, and reduced to a nonentity, she has become ugly.

7. The woman that you find in the world is not a true woman either, because she has been corrupted for centuries.

8. When the woman is corrupted, man cannot remain natural either, because after all, the woman gives birth to the man.

9. If she is not natural, her children will not be natural. If she is not natural — she is going to mother the child, male or female — those children naturally will be affected by the mother.

10. Women certainly need a great liberation, but what is happening in the name of liberation is stupid. It is imitation, it is not liberation.

11. Real liberation will make the woman authentically a woman, not an imitation of man.

12. I would like the woman to become really a woman, because much depends on her.

13. She is far more important than man because she carries in her womb both the woman and the man.

14. She mothers both, the boy and the girl; she nourishes both.

15. If she is poisoned, then her milk is poisoned, then her ways of bringing up children are poisoned.

16. The freedom of woman is a must for the freedom of man; it is more fundamental than man’s freedom.

17. If the woman is a slave — as she has been for centuries — she will make a slave of man too, in very subtle ways.

18. She will not fight with you directly; her fight will be indirect, it will be feminine. She will cry and weep. She will not hit you, she will hit herself.

19. A very thin, weak woman can dominate a very strong man.

20. The woman needs total freedom so that she can give freedom to man too.

21. Do you know? The first persons who started talking about equality between men and women were men, not women. The first persons who started talking about it, that they should have equal freedom, were men, not women.

22. The male mind is a cunning mind. The woman is more innocent; she cannot be so strategic, so political. She has always believed the man.

23. She cannot forgive the man for using her.

24. And if you have to compete in the world and prove that you are as strong as men, you have to somehow become more like men. And this will be a loss.

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25. The only hope for humanity is the softness of woman, not the hardness of man.

26. What is needed is that man should become more like woman, rather than woman becoming more like man.

27. Men and women are not equal, because man is missing that womb. They are so different — how can they be equal? They are polar opposites. They are so different, they cannot be compared in terms of equality or inequality.

28. There are women who are not women, who are wolves; and there are men who are not wolves, who are cats.

29. The woman, to be really a woman, has to be more and more feminine, has to touch the heights of softness and vulnerability. And the man, to be really a man, has to move into his masculinity as deeply as possible.

30. When a real man comes in contact with a real woman, they are polar opposites, extremes. But only extremes can fall in love, and only extremes can enjoy intimacy. Only extremes attract each other.

31. The woman can be of immense help in creating an organic society. She is different from man, but not unequal.

32. The truth is that the pain and suffering that women of the world have gone through is a thousandfold more than man has ever known.

If the woman is not free to be really a woman, man will never be free to be really a man either. ~ Osho

For many, loved ones and family are still important. But several differences become the reason for love-hate relations. Basic understanding is the foundation of good relations more than capability, right or wrong things. Whether it’s toward a family member, your parents, siblings, spouse, or other loved ones.

Life keeps going, and sometimes we only need a little understanding of the basics.

So here are some powerful lines by Osho to help you understand more about the Women, from The Book —

The Book of Women: a celebration of women and the female spirit.

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Today, it's all about You! Here is a collection of 7 Amazing Tweets that Can help you to manage yourself better. Because in this world of 8 Billion People, You also matter!

7 Wonderful Reminders, You Forget Soon!

The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.

From: How to win friends and influence people!

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) June 28, 2022

The reason people suffer regularly is because most people suck at listening & understanding!

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 6, 2022

Become your own best friend 🤗

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 16, 2022

Some people stand by you in your darkest hour, while others walk away; only a select few march towards you and become even closer friends.

—Excerpt from Only time will tell

— Vishal agarwal (@anytimereader) July 20, 2022

Most common question people ask about is Mental health!

There is help available!
And you should Take it! 😊

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 12, 2022

No one is born an expert.
Everyone tried & learned with practice & time.

So, don't give up. Give yourself time & practice for improvement.

— Muskan Syal (@Muskansyal16) July 18, 2022

Try to exercise/ walk daily, doesn't matter if you can do it for 10 minutes or 60 minutes

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 19, 2022

If you understand these, it can help you a lot. Go over it again and start investing in yourself too! All the best!

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People, situations, circumstances, experiences, pain, bullying, and several things have made you stronger! 

You are strong now, and it’s not your fault! And there is no going back! 

Women tolerate abuse because of emotional vulnerability. - Gul Panag 

Before moving ahead, I would like to tell you that it may contain some mature content. If you are uncomfortable or do not understand such things, kindly do not read further. 

Contents

1. Strong Woman 
2. Strong Woman, Strong Man 
3. A strong woman with an Average man 
4. Imbalance in Personality and Relationships 
5. Why strong girls fall for bad boys 
6. Why does a man go for a woman who does not use her brain much 
7. Myth of beauty 
8. How wicked women are good at tuning men on their fingers 

1. Strong Woman

Dear Strong Woman!

If you are strong, It’s not your fault!

But do not let others use you in the name of strength, tolerance, and patience.

Be it in common relation with friends, colleagues, romantic, or any other form.

You are strong, and you might find it normal or can tolerate the unnecessary ego and drama in your relations, but If you allow them to get away with it once, you are telling them they can get away with it every time.

It is a harsh experience for several strong girls, and more friction comes from their family members or guardians. Sometimes from parents too!

So, I hope you understand the importance of raising your voice!

2. Strong Woman, Strong Man

It might seem like they are made for each other initially, but it is not after some months.

A Strong woman, who is emotionally, & financially independent, will struggle to figure out a balance of power over her partner because he doesn’t want to feel weak. He wants her to be submissive because of his strength. So he continues his attempts to claim dominance in their relationship.

Girls are taught to be a caretaker, and compassionate women, who have to sacrifice their will & desire for their partner.

So, she ended up struggling more.

3. Strong woman with an Average man

No matter how successful or independent they are, women become victims of their idea of a perfect fairytale life, while men often become abusive to overcome their insecurities.

Such Men can repeatedly humiliate you in front of their friends, family members, relatives, or any 3rd person.

So, she ended up struggling more.

4. Imbalance in Personality and Relationships

When people have a good image in the outside society, their only space to let out imperfection is their own home.

So, If he is a nice guy to society, he’ll let out all his frustration at home. He can be violent beyond expectation.

He gets violent if women do not work according to his will, demand, habits, taste, and control.

So, she ended up struggling more.

5. Why strong girls fall for bad boys

Women feel that bad boys (not in the sense of character or criminal-minded person) will protect them from the outside world.

Why does it happen?

Even the most intelligent girl can lose her mind to her heart

Results

Such men take advantage of the vulnerability of women who crave a home, family, and other domestic bliss.

So, she ended up struggling more.

6. Why does a man go for a woman who does not use her brain much

If a man is wise, the lady feels proud of his man.

But, if the lady is wise, a man does not always feel proud. She becomes a new competition for his mind. And he might get insecure, or he will start looking for other flaws in her. This will imbalance the relationship.

Men are strong, intelligent, and imaginative, while women are physically weak and known for not-so-wise decisions or often emotional decisions.

All relationships go through cycles and phases. The honeymoon period doesn’t last forever. Work stress and family obligations can get in the way.

And in all this, he would not like an interruption from the woman, who would like to create mental pressure on him.

So, they go for women who do not use their brains much.

Women let men work for them, think for them, and take on their responsibilities. When a man feels like a king, at least in front of his woman, it boosts his ego.

So, a man goes for a woman who does not use her brain much.

If she is smart, she doesn’t use it much in front of her man intentionally. If she used it, she ended up struggling more.

7. Myth of beauty

People say that beauty will help you to keep your man in place. And they define beauty as a beautiful face and a perfect body figure.

Poets and sometimes Inspirational & motivational writers tell you that outer beauty doesn’t matter.

Which is nowhere the complete truth. 

The beauty of thought and inner beauty also matter, along with outer beauty.

Ignoring a significant factor is like missing an essential element in the Science lab, whose output will be unexpected.

The fact is:

Where the beauty of the face can help with short-term satisfaction.

It’s the beauty of thoughts (compatibility) and inner beauty (purity of heart) that helps keep the relationship in place for the long term.

And all three are essential in the necessary ratio!

8. How wicked women are good at tuning men on their fingers

Have you ever wondered why most men prefer the nastier girl to date?

She is clever and wicked. Who is innocent, beautiful, and glamorous by her face and looks for the outside world. Who can be dangerous & devil by heart?

According to psychologists and therapists, such women have had unfortunate learning experiences, especially about men. So, they developed a manipulative approach to dominate and control the men around them.

They understand how much a man will surrender to pursue sexual access.

They understand how to make him feel that there is no friction and that the man controls the relationship.

There are so many secrets only they can understand and know about men, along with the therapists and relationship counselors.

Ultimately, a man does not feel safe to show his vulnerability for one or more reasons to their partner, who deserves it. And wicked women ended up tuning them.

So, a strong woman ended up suffering.

Resources:

Good Men project, Firstpost, observation, experiences of surrounding, books based on relationships written by counselors, and therapists, conversations with several other strong women who are either married or in Relationships.

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I want to share because I’ve learned this from the behavior of people in my surroundings, going through the ups & downs of my life & the several other women I’ve interacted with in the Journey!

If you understand these, it can help you a lot. Go over it again, take your decisions with wisdom & overcome your weaknesses! All the best! 

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Original Source: Why Strong Women suffer in relationships