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Today, it's all about You! Here is a collection of 7 Amazing Tweets that Can help you to manage yourself better. Because in this world of 8 Billion People, You also matter!


7 Wonderful Reminders, You forget Soon!

The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.

From: How to win friends and influence people!

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) June 28, 2022

The reason people suffer regularly is because most people suck at listening & understanding!

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 6, 2022

Become your own best friend 🤗

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 16, 2022

Some people stand by you in your darkest hour, while others walk away; only a select few march towards you and become even closer friends.

—Excerpt from Only time will tell

— Vishal agarwal (@anytimereader) July 20, 2022

Most common question people ask about is Mental health!

There is help available!
And you should Take it! 😊

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 12, 2022

No one is born an expert.
Everyone tried & learned with practice & time.

So, don't give up. Give yourself time & practice for improvement.

— Muskan Syal (@Muskansyal16) July 18, 2022

Try to exercise/ walk daily, doesn't matter if you can do it for 10 minutes or 60 minutes

— Monika - 241🔥 (@moniread) July 19, 2022


If you understand these, it can help you a lot. Go over it again and start investing in yourself too! All the best!

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Be in Touch! 

Monika 


If you like this, You'll love: How Emotion, People, and Success Fooled You by Monika Singh

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Happy two years as an active Creator! I am feeling so Happy & grateful. Thank you, dear people, for making it possible for me to stay here and for giving me healthy hope about what I have to do next. 

This is my Journey!

Before these positive vibes, I had also gone through a journey of negative vibes and self-doubt and felt like a loser several times, where my patience was tested badly.

Because, When you feel almost everyone who has started their journey with you is already on their next milestone, and you are the only one lagging, you feel separated & lost the sense of belonging to that Community. 


Because things are not the same as they were before. And you are not alone, who face this problem. People often leave the less successful people behind because of many reasons. 

Though I am grateful to meet amazing people here who decided to follow me, connect with me, listen to me, read my content & support me as I have never thought.

But on the other side, I have lost a lot of connections too! I lost some. After all, I had written long comments, & lost some because I failed to comment. I lost some because I was still trying to connect genuinely when they now have many 1000s of other people like me; & I lost some because I could not reply instantly. So, the community I was trying to build was not based on win-win situations. 

And because of this, I was Trapped in fear of investing time in people only to see them go when they hit a particular milestone! And this was continuously draining my energy. 

But, then deeply realized people will come & go. Those who will keep supporting you with honest feedback, Client Recommendations & help you to build your money empire/side hustle are the true gems.

And this is how I am getting the motivation to diversify my source of income and build other assets! And I am finally trying to balance being a User & Creator. 

We have to reach our next milestone - multiple digits of Money earning instead of just followers! Because they can not pay bills on just the number of followers. 

Now, how can I be more thankful to these fantastic People? Thanks for being part of my Creators Journey! 

Please share with your favorite Creators and tell them how they are making a difference!

© Monika

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The trust you have put in someone has a very deep connection with loyalty. Then it does not matter if it is personal life or professional life. 

Well, my dear reader, I admire the efforts; you have put into someone. But still, I would like to tell you, It is not always your fault if things do not work out. 

Often people do not value precious connections. They manipulate the real meanings of conversations, and people & they destroy valuable & precious Relations. 



Sometimes, we have to move ahead in life without many regrets. In fact, leave those painful memories, incidents, and regrets behind. 

It is totally okay if things do not work out. It is totally ok if you still tried to give several chances to something or someone when 1000s of people were telling you that you are making a huge mistake blindly. 

They were there to explain to you based on their experiences for your betterment. 


Okay! Now you have a broken heart, bad mental health, and sleepless nights. 

Now what? 
We can not change the past, but we can try to make our present better. 
It is totally okay to execute another plan if the previous one fails. It is totally okay to make the present beautiful, regardless of the painful past. 

Though Loyalty is loyalty & it does not need any particular day as a reminder & cherish the moments and precious Loyal people. 


Dedicated to You! 
Thank you for stopping by! 
It was meant to be Published on Loyalty day, but I could not share it! 

© Monika 

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Original Source: Loyalty, Relations, and Trust 
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I was a chubby but healthy kid. You have probably observed people whose faces turn Red when they laugh (like a tomato). 

Because Childhood & teenage is a stage where we are less or not stressed at all about Life; if we are, we ignore it because keep moving ahead is our ultimate step.

But the last few years were full of ups & down. I have quickly lost weight because of city & hostel life, and I quickly gained it in the last one and a half years (lockdown, & then homemade food). Indian moms serve more when they feel we are not looking fit & strong. Probably I used to eat more when I used to feel stressed, or I used to eat more often as a carefree girl.

As we focus more on career life, we ignore our sitting hours, eyes, and physical & mental health! It happened to me too. Being an engineering student, screen time is a part of your life! 

And mainly, when focusing more on Artificial Intelligence, you have to focus more and more on the screen. Also, when you have to type and create content for your lovely readers, it results in fewer breaks for eyes & body and more stress.

So, I hope you can understand how unhealthy habits we develop or we start sacrificing our health for careers.

It was last month, and I decided to stay fit. And you know what? I am working on it. I focused on Changing my diet foods eating habits & trying to stick to my sleeping routine. And I got this book: The New Me. And here I would like to share its review with you guys!



Book Title: The New Me - A guidebook to perfect health
Author: Gagan Dhawan
Pages: 80

Book Review!

This book is so much insightful and packed in 80 pages. The value & knowledge is simple & short, still overflowing. What I would like to say is Fewer words - more sense!

One day, the Author realized that he now had to take medications. And when he realized if he started taking them, there would be no going back, He was concerned, serious & more active about his health.

He took 90 days of challenges, and he found that after 90 days, he is fit & fine according to all medical tests, and he doesn't need medications now.

So, in this book, he has shared how to set up this three months challenge, what we have to do, what not, eating habits, food, diets, minor things like sleeping habits & drinking water, etc. And much more.

So I required this book, so I am not saying how insightful this is as a book lover. I am sharing how much value it is, according to a person who is now on her health-fitness Journey! I hope to share some behind the scenes about my fitness Journey soon!

Recommended To: those who are trying to take their physical health seriously.

Well, if you are someone, who is more & more practical, & does not love the book, let us take a 90 days challenge to fit ourselves!
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Though here is a little reminder and message I want to tell you out loud that: you can always reach out for help when it is too much!

The very first thing I want to make clear is that you embrace your flaws because no one is perfect. The only different perspective in the eyes of optimistic is — you can be perfect in someone's eyes!

But why! Here are reasons without any selfishness.


I have observed the fire of passion in you is really different, different from the hunger for just money. 

I know you love the journey of breaking societal limits & barriers, and that is really a good thing.

Not only this, you know how to give hope & spread light & smile, even though you are not even aware, that what's the depth of darkness.

Along with it, one more thing which makes you different is that does not matter how hard time you are having, you do not throw your problems on someone else, even the person is closest to you, or you know the Perspective can give you a helping hand and help you to move out from the darkness.

I know you love hugs whenever you are feeling low, though I do not know the reasons. The good thing is, they work like magic for you.

Though there is a little reminder and message I want to tell you out loud that:

Sometimes it is totally ok to feel low; reach out and ask for a little favor.

You know, you can always reach out for help when it is too much.

Keep this thing in mind that taking responsibility does not mean you have to sacrifice yourself or you have to wear a coat of toughness on your skin, mind & heart, including emotions.

I want to remind you, you deserve a lot.

Do not forget to give credit to yourself, & loved one's where ever it is due.

Life is not meant to work hard and work hard & earn money & spend money.

I want to remind you, you are worthy enough to enjoy life to spend time with the people who care for you & you truly care.

Not only that, I want to remind you to take enough breaks whenever you feel on the verge of breaking down or even before that.

I want to remind you to move on from past life.

Not only that, but I want to help you to heal from all the wounds which are given by people you have trusted mistakenly.

I want to see you growing, healing, feeling little satisfaction & touching the sky.

Not only that, but I would like to accompany you until you do not find your true happiness or someone who can support you & respect you more than me.

Give a little part of love to yourself too!


Dedicated to all the lovely souls out there & to the people I admire a lot!

When I was writing it, the perspectives in my mind were my closed ones, including my Parents!

But when I was reading & arranging it, I realized that it goes for every Parent, partner, or someone who knows how to love truly!

Share with the people you care about! And do not forget to Celebrate Your Love.

Thank you!
© Monika

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I want to tell you out loud that - you can always reach out for help
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How complicated yet powerful Love can be in relationships; we can observe it in our daily life and the things near us.

Book: Love Science — Psychology of attraction!
Author: Surajit Roy
Publisher: Notion Press
Pages: 100+


Book Review:

There are different stages of love, classified based on our life Journey.
Childhood, Teenage, Young age, and Old age.

In childhood, we are emotionally attached to our Parents, Siblings, or someone who cares about us a lot.

In our teenage, we experience — friends' love, feel infatuated or create stories about crushes in our head, which are most of the time one-sided or in our imaginations.

It is not the fault of teenagers. Books & movies make us like this.

As we move towards young age, there are two important factors:
1. Lust and 2. Companionship.

Though 2 people are never alike & for more than 90% of people look seriously matter. They are influenced by Physical attraction, lust, sex, beauty, and much more. That is why we can observe that a lot of Indian arrange marriages are painful. And in love marriages, love disappears after 3-4 months or 1-2 years.

If you are driven by companionship (rare people), then in such cases, Emotions, intimacy, Strong bond, Communication, Commitment, etc., matters a lot.

My take on Book Narration
It is doing great on the Philosophical part & research-based interest. Along with it, it is also creating confusion and controversies too; as we all know, love is different and varies from individual to individual.

Also, the song's lyrics bring two contexts. One is entertainment when we are in the mood for enjoyment & another is feeling, understanding, and pain when we are feeling low.

The cover of the book expresses it clearly. Love is not like our imaginations or attractive & smooth like fantasies in romance novels or movies. It is complicated, messy, and hard to connect and keep all the dots in 1 thread. It seriously needs care and proper balance. 

Suggestions for Author:
The narration needs to be more smooth after half book & before the last quarter. This book needs one more revision for proper flow.


How did I feel while reading this?
It is really hard to digest a lot of opinions and facts without questioning. So, if we do not try to relate things to our real life and surrounding, the stuff of romance fiction/ Bollywood movies will keep empowering our beliefs.

But the reality is: Love is one thing, and relationship is another. Love is free & form of freedom.  Relationships come with partnership & love.

How can this book be helpful for you?
Benefits: It can help you to understand how to pick up the right life partner without many compromises and to force your beliefs.

Recommended To: Those people looking forward to understanding what actual Relationships and Love are in real life. I can not recommend this book to — beginners and hopeless romantic people empowered by escaping reality.

I will share tips, factors, & more things in upcoming posts! 

Share with someone who is new in Relationships or is dating someone or wants to date. 

Get the Book: Book Link


© Monika


Original Source: Love Science — Psychology of attraction! Book Review
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Heal wounds and heal the world! Let us talk about healing today! What is healing?

After reading articles and posts of trusted creators, I have realized that when people start feeling that their silence can be heard in this loud world, they start feeling good and comfortable, and that is how their healing journey begins.


It is not that everyone is 100% perfect. Everyone has their wounds, cuts, and scars, and people are looking for solutions to their problems.




In the last few days, I have realized that many people who need solutions to problems confuse the expertise for good solutions with the outer look. Like if they observe good graphic posts, then they misunderstand the content provided in its quality content and start considering it as the solution to their problem, which is not accurate.


Quality content is something that resonates with your heart and soul. You can hear the voice of a creator in your head, and you can feel those emotions in your heart; this is why a piece of content seems quality content for you.

They feel resonating with your thoughts, and that is how the flow of positivity transforms toward you, and that is how the healing begins. Well, I am not an expert on healing, but after passing through the ups and downs of my life in the last five years, I can say that sometimes it's ok not to be ok.


One day we heal; another day, we suffer. One day we are trying to do our best. Another day people are trying to break us, and the cycle runs continuously. No one is perfectly healed. People have to live the life journey instead of just surviving somehow. 

People have to live together. That's how they can heal together and grow together.


Do not be selfish, do not shut out meaningful conversations, or ignore important things.

You know, by doing such things, you are only creating boundaries in your relations. By doing such things, you are only trying to separate or push those people who care for you. It is ok to feel hurt by other people's words. The only thing we can do is stop expecting from them. Everyone has a different mindset. If they want to see perfection in you, then make sure that they also seem perfect in your eyes. If not, then don't take their words to your heart. You need better people in your life. No one is perfect. 


People need love, kindness, and support. Everyone's needs are different. That is why compatibility matters a lot. Give your 100 percent to the people you feel your silence can be heard. You need people who can support you, who can help you to move ahead and to live happily and enjoy this beautiful life instead of just surviving somehow.


What are your thoughts about the healing?


© Monika Singh


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Original Source: Healing happens in layers, hurting and healing | Moni

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The hardest thing for a writer is to give feelings to non-living words! But do you know real life has more emotions than fictional content? Writers write feelings & a lot of people only read words; & this is where we fail to understand what the person wants to say!

I'm saying this after completing a whole year here, interacting with people from different areas of the Nation & world too!


Because we are habitual of using our brains & hearts at the wrong places & times, we use our brains when we should use our hearts! & Our brains stop working when we need it to overcome emotional situations.

So, try to be practical! Don't close your eyes when you observe something completely unexpected. Instead, be a keen observer! Because life is not entirely fair. All knowledge, past life experiences, skills, wisdom, logic & capabilities can be tested when you're unprepared! And this is what I've been learning over the last five years!

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Treating people like they are just accounts can help you to rock on social media only, which is not reality. It's only a part of real life. The things that can help us cherish our real life are - genuine people & connections!
Don't forget that the people you know today were strangers to you once! And people pretending to be your friends can still be strangers!

So, Social media is not to scrolling & count your followers the whole day. It's to connect with amazing people & People having similar life experiences are rare! Don't give up on them for betterment!

I realized this when I realized the importance of excellent & genuine people in my life. People are everywhere, but gems are not present everywhere!

Regards Monika

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In our daily life, we make most of our decisions based on our emotions. We judge people based on how we feel & not how they are.

In this journey of keeping many temporary people closer, we lose many secret admirers, well-wishers, and good friends, knowingly or unknowingly.
Just because we do not feel that vibe that we are similar, and why? Because of our habit of making decisions in a hurry, random irrelevant advice; which are creating insecurities in our minds and our hearts.


Everyone is unique in their way. And the way they live their life & treat people can be quite different. The way they accept people in their life can be different. Meanwhile, today's generation believes more in showing off & loudness of words.

If you are an introvert like me, you can be lost like an invisible man.
Even if people know that socializing is exhausting for you & you also need lots of courage to show up or start a conversation. But it does not matter how hard you try. They are not going to notice your efforts. Because these things are so common for extroverts & your efforts are always negligible for them.

So, we are not similar.
If you are going to judge people in the first meeting, you can't observe a lot of hidden similar traits in them.
It may take several days or even months to identify people because people do not want to open up so easily if they do not want to repeat past life mistakes.

How Emotion, People, and Success Fooled You by Monika Singh

For example:
If I keep my good sides in front of you first, probably you'll not be able to digest & ignore me!
If I keep my worst sides in front of you first, probably you'll avoid me. 
But what is the point if I have to show my good sides to those who will only use me?
What is the benefit of showing my worst sides - all the time, to those who are trying to fill the colors in my life?

Let us keep it natural & genuine most of the time. You'll find the right people at the right time.
The moment we realize the importance of self-love first, we can also recognize the importance of excellent & genuine people; who know how to accept people as they're. Along with it, we also realize that if temporary people want to leave us, let them go.
Do not think that they will lose you. Careless & incredibly selfish people are not going to care for you! Never!!!

What if I say accepting differences is an art in which not everyone is good?
If you are observing differences in someone's behavior, that does not mean that person will destroy your mental peace. It can be possible that you'll end up learning many things from that person. And based on differences, you can be genuine & good long-term friends.

I want to discuss it more in-depth, but then you'll feel it is lengthy. So, I'll describe it in my upcoming book. Till then, let me end it here with a few essential words.

Mark the difference & Learn to accept differences. We both are unique. This is the thing we need to accept.
I am not like you, and you are not like me. But that does not mean I can not like you.
But, Human beings are controlled by their emotions, that's why lack of Common Sense is really common nowadays.
So, do not bother! Learn to live for yourself first, and learn to enjoy this beautiful life daily!

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Am I Like You?
Are You Like Me?
Regards Monika Singh

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𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲

The people you love to talk to more wanna spend more time, travel here & there, and enjoy a few moments; they matter a lot to you. Obviously! & it is normal.
Of course, we love freedom & we don't want to compromise. That's why we want to spend most of our time with the people we love. Isn't it?
But are you on their priority list? Ask yourself !!!
Not always! Because they also have friends other than you, with whom they want to enjoy & wanna support them at every step.

𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂

They are the ones who are always there with you when you need them during a hard time.
Take a pause, & think about those who are willing to take a step forward to help you. Sometimes, without even asking, just by observing the change in your behavior! They are gems.

Have you ever wondered if there are always secret admirers in your life who look up to you & always pray good things for you? They will not always tell you- how much they care. They will never try to gain your attention - constantly. But God knows how they suddenly appear in front of you when you genuinely need them.

And people you like and who like you back are rare in your friend circle! They are not always the same, but this is a basic human tendency.

I can proudly talk about such unique gems who like us more & I have learned to focus more on people: who care for me instead of those to whom I care & I am still trying to understand it precisely & practically.

Both are necessary for our life, but those who care about us are amazing! And they must be on our priority list - always! They will never ask for it, but this is the only way - how you can care for them.

They do not disturb you every time because they know they are not your priority, but they still treat you like - you're their priority.

Mark the difference !! 
Let's stop chasing everything we like more & start chasing priceless & valuable relations & friends who are important to us.

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For example:-
• How many of you care for those secret admirers - who silently support you but are not seeking your attention?
• You like someone until they support you! When they suddenly disappear, you do not even care for them. Instead, you create a negative perception of them.
How many times have you asked them: Are you ok?

Who is your top priority?
Share with someone & let them know that you care!

Written by Monika Singh
From www.moniread.in
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Social media influencers in marketing need more mental health awareness!

If a particular thing has some great advantage, then on the other side, there may be disadvantages too. Excess of everything is harmful. So keeping these things in mind, this blog post is designed, and it is about a few worst things related to social media.

Social media Influencers and Creators, Mental health

Here are 19 things with reasons and explanations:-

1. Lack of proper guidance.

Proper Guidance is necessary at every stage of life. So it also plays an important role when it comes to social media. If not, the outcomes will be only: a waste of time and energy. Think what can be the results; if someone may give you the exact roadmap of traveling, it'll be easier to reach the destination, right? The same thing is also applicable here for creators. That's why search for those people who can give you proper guidance. And do not take it from every random person unaware of his life.

2. Few honest feedbacks.

Honest feedbacks are necessary for great success. But those who provide honest feedback are very rare. If you ever find out about them, keep them closer to yourself. Maybe sometimes, you may feel like, probably your work is perfect, but still, it may need a lot of analysis, and that's why honest feedbacks are necessary.

Also, keep the logical brain active. Any random person can give you feedback or suggestion with flirty, cheesy, and attractive lines and emojis. Now it does not mean that feedback is genuine and good for you always. I have observed many genuine people whose intentions and words speak more than most famous and emotional emojis and buttering. Their honesty is more heartwarming rather than comments left to show off or to manipulate.


3. Irrelevant suggestions.

Often people start giving random suggestions, and they can divert your mind from actual goals. They will provide every piece of unexpected guidance, except that one which you need in your life to grow more.


4. Every follower is not your fan.

If you are trying to measure your growth through the number of followers and likes, then this is not the actual growth. It is not necessary that each follower wants good things for you every time. Also, most people are temporarily on your followers' list too. So stop considering them as your fam. Maybe there can be spammers and detectives as well. Who wants to keep a sharp eye on your activities intentionally? So it is not necessary to share things about your personal life publicly. Try to maintain a safe distance from those who provoke you to post about your problems publicly. 

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5. The unbalanced ratio of users and creators.

Social media is a potent tool meant to consume and create content. Even those at the top of the list of creators are also users and audiences. They also do likes and comments on posts of their niche and healthy competitors. So the simple conclusion is - If you want to be a creator, try to be a user first. Else who is going to check out your content?

Nowadays, social media is also tough day by day. And it is keeping a sharp eye on your activities too. So try to keep your activities as much as humanly you can, instead of robot behavior.


6. Data insecurity.

The biggest issue is the insecurity of data. Selling of data sucks those whose information gets leaked. Even nowadays, people have started stealing pics and later using them for public harassment by doing alterations either through graphic designing or simply a little bit of editing.

7. Scroll, scroll, scroll

Your audience is crucial to your success for you. Right? But the attraction time is very low, often 3-8 seconds. And this is when you can hold them on your posts or videos. Probably this information may help you to save time by next time, whichever you give, to design every single post and in the editing of every video. You can understand the pain, but users do not.

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8. If you are a creator, you have less time to consume the data of other creators.

This is the most common mistake, often because of lack of time and sometimes because you do not want to help the other fellow creators because of fear of competition. You may satisfy yourself, but it may also negatively affect you.


9. No target audience.

When we have not fixed any particular niche, we have a scattered audience. And this is the main reason behind the lower engagement also. Maybe you have observed many people having followers in thousands, but their engagement ratio is sometimes even less than 0.1 percent. I watched this thing when I received DM from an account that has more than 6000 followers but less than even six likes on almost every post.


10. Social media addiction.

Being a creator, you may have high hope for success from your audience too. And this is going to make you addicted to social media. How many hours are you spending on one social media platform? Check it out today. Later check out the total time you spend on all social media platforms you are active on!


11. People are ready to take advantage.

This is for those creators who have a good heart or are habitual in forgiving people. If you want to achieve great heights with happiness, keep your goodness only for those who deserve it. Not everyone deserves it. You have to learn about it, where you have to be good, and where you can use your attitude or say a big No to those who are there only to use you. But be humble enough until you don't know people's intentions.


12. More self-image concern.

Often I have observed many people who try to be extra friendly to strangers. Do not reveal the best side of the heart to everyone. It is ok if you are the same in your personal life, but if not, then do not try to live a double-standard life. You may be fed up soon with it, resulting in losing your inner Peace.


13. Emotional side effects.

Tough competition, getting more minor results in comparison to input, and the negativity you receive on social media about your content. These things may create emotional issues. It does not matter how hard Hearted you try to seem, but they affect you. Few feel it less, and few up to more extent.


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14. High suicidal rates.

This is so common nowadays, but people ignore this thing generally. But social media can be the primary cause of most suicidal cases.


15. The ratio of real followers/ audience is low.

You have to search for genuine people, and they are hardly 1 % to 5%. Build a real relationship with them. You can find them out through their actions, not communication, as nowadays, many people are so good at manipulation. So keep a closer eye, maybe it may take a longer time to find them out, but you have to keep your patience level. Who knows how your mutual discussion can result in excellent outcomes of ideas and later grand success?


16. Uncontrollable cyberbullying.

This is at its highest peak, and it seems it is uncontrollable. Maybe people start it for fun or to pull down someone publicly. It later seems like the most unwanted problem of our life. This problem does not even stop here. People target you intentionally and try to manipulate the meaning of your messages and comments! Fix this in your mind your messages in chats are not always between two people. It doesn't matter how much respect you give to that person; still, one day, you probably find it out that your conversations were shared almost everywhere.

And if they shared by manipulative purpose or misrepresentation of your character, this is a serious offense, even more dangerous than hateful comments. You do not need to maintain relations with people who are there to harm your dignity and self-respect.

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17. Competition.

Competition is there in the market, and already many people are struggling because of it. It results in frustration and jealousy generally. Healthy competition is necessary also, but one which can support you, not that which results in envy and depression. Stop comparing yourself to others. You can be your best competitor.


18. Jealousy.

Jealousy is the evil root of destruction. Unintentionally people start feeling jealous of other creators, and they start spreading hate and negativity for them. Maybe they forget that they may look fantastic for a few moments, but later, they will harm themselves only by doing so.


19. Negativity. 

If you are a creator who posts things related to Motivation, inspiration, hope, and good things, then you are getting a lot of DM's:- related to negativity about you, your thinking, differences in your review, and many more things. Sometimes it results in anxiety and depression, and emotional heartbreaks too.


To keep it short, only 19 points are discussed here. If your response is excellent, I'll post the second part soon.

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Monika Singh 


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