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Heal wounds and heal the world! Let us talk about healing today! What is healing?

After reading articles and posts of trusted creators I have realized that when people start feeling that their silence can be heard in this loud world, they start feeling good and comfortable and that is how their healing journey begins.

It is not that everyone is 100% perfect. Everyone has their wounds, cuts, scars, and people are looking for solutions to their problems.

In the last few days, I have realized that a lot of people who need solutions to problems, confuse the expertise for good solutions with the outer look. Like if they observe good graphic posts, then they misunderstand the content provided in it by the quality content and start considering it as the solution to their problem, which is not accurate.

Quality content is something, which resonates with your heart and soul. You can hear the voice of a creator in your head, you can feel those emotions in your heart; this is what a piece of content seems quality content for you.

They feel resonating with your thoughts and that is how the flow of positivity transforms towards you and that is how the healing begins. Well, I am not an expert about healing, but after passing from the ups and downs of my life in the last 5 years, I can say that sometimes it's ok to not be ok.

One day we heal, another day we are suffering. One day we are trying to do our best, another day people are trying to break us, and the cycle run continuously. No one is perfectly healed, people have to live the life journey instead of just surviving somehow. 

People have to live together, that's how they can heal together, and grow together.

Do not be selfish, do not shut out the important conversations, do not ignore important things.

You know, by doing such things you are only creating boundaries in your relations. By doing such things, you are only trying to separate or push those people who care for you. It is ok to feel hurt by other people's words. The only thing we can do is, just stop expecting from them. Everyone has a different mindset. If they want to see perfection in you, then make sure that they also seem perfect in your eyes. If not then don't take their words on your heart. You need better people in your life. No one is perfect. 

People need love, kindness, and support. Everyone's, needs are different. That is why compatibility matters a lot. Give your 100 percent towards the people, where you feel your silence can be heard. You need people who can support you, who can help you to move ahead and to live happily and enjoy this beautiful life instead of just surviving somehow.

What are your thoughts about the healing?

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Do you love Suspense stories full of conspiracy and struggle? Then probably this one is for you.

Book Title: Not Without Your Love

Author: Arvind Parashar

Before picking up this book, I was not aware that the author has written 23 books. And when you start reading the work of an experienced author, probably expectations are higher from the story.

This story starts with Noosh describing her light sleeping habits in the noisy city. Though she is pregnant, she is living alone & hoping to meet his love soon.

Noosh & Kabir are the main characters of the story. Kabir is a journalist & photographer. Kabir is from Bombay & Noosh is from Afghanistan. They've studied in the same College in Moscow, where they met. Noosh has returned to her hometown Herat, Afghanistan.

Kabir visits Afghanistan, to work on a secret mission. Afghanistan is the center point for the whole story. After a few days, Afghanistan brought conspiracy for Kabir, but how?

What I like:

The thing which won my heart, is I always say & strongly believe - 'Friendships that are built-in hard times last forever.

Now I don't know, I give credit to the author for this Statement or to myself. You might be aware if you're connected with me for a long time. Great coincidence, isn't it?

Though I don't believe more in love stories, because there is betrayal, manipulation at every stage. People nowadays consider that the biggest victory is getting married. But the actual struggle probably starts after it. But this story is something, whose ending can give satisfaction to your soul.

What I dislike:

Politics! Though I've no interest in the things which always disturb me. And when you're a person who is habitual of feeling words, it directly hit the head & of course a little disturbing too. 

Though we should not judge things, at first sight, I've picked this one by considering it a love story but it's more about politics, struggles & betrayal.

The book cover and title of the story can be more relevant to the story, as this doesn't seem completely fit.

I feel It was not an easy read for me. If you are comfortable feeling such triggered emotions (separation, betrayal, politics), in the journey of long-lasting love; you can go for it. 

Recommended For: Thriller lovers, who are comfortable with politics.

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Social media influencers in marketing need more mental health awareness!

If a particular thing has some great advantage, then on the other side, there may be disadvantages too. Excess of everything is harmful. So keeping these things in mind, this blog post is designed and it is about a few worst things related to social media.

1. Lack of proper guidance.

2. Few honest feedbacks.

Honest feedbacks are necessary for great success. But those who provide honest feedback are very rare. If you ever find out them, keep them closer to yourself. Maybe sometimes, you may feel like, probably your work is perfect, but still, it may need a lot of analysis; and that's why honest feedbacks are necessary.

Also, keep the logical brain active. Any random person can give you feedback or suggestion with flirty, cheesy, and attractive lines and emojis. Now it does not mean that feedback is genuine and good for you, always. I have observed so many genuine people, whose intentions and words speak more than most popular and emotional emojis and buttering. Their honesty is more heartwarming rather than comments left just to show off or to manipulate.

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3. Irrelevant suggestions.

Often people start giving random suggestions, and they can divert your mind from actual goals. They will give every piece of random suggestion, except that one, which you need in your life, to grow more.

4. Every follower is not your fan.

If you are trying to measure your growth through the number of followers and number of likes; then this is not the actual growth. It is not necessary that each follower wants good things for you, every time. Also, most people are temporary on your followers' list too. So stop considering them as your fam. Maybe there can be spammers, detectives as well. Who wants to keep a sharp eye on your activities, intentionally. So it is not necessary to share things about your personal life, publicly. Those who provoke you to post about your problems publicly, try to maintain a safe distance from them.

5. The unbalanced ratio of users and creators.

Social media is a very powerful tool, which is meant to consume and create content. Even those who are at the top, in the list of creators, are also users and audiences. They also do likes, comments on posts of their niche and healthy competitors. So simple conclusion is this, be a user, if you want to be a creator, else who is going to check out your content?

Nowadays, social media is also strict day by day. And it is keeping a sharp eye on your activities too. So try to keep your activities as much as humanly you can, instead of robots behavior.