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Moni Read

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Hello! I hope you’re doing fine! You don’t know how much you are important for me.

I appreciate you. And I’m grateful for all the things you are doing for me, from reading to implementing, along with your Patience and Support.

I am sharing it with you so late, but still, I can’t tell you how much I’m excited to share it with my community.

Today I’m here to celebrate 3000+ Instagram Community fam with You. 

Image by Monika Singh

Though numbers don’t matter to me. But with time I realized that they are important to establish Authority and therefore important to bring an impact in the life of people who only listen to successful people. 

Yet I assure you that still I treat people like people and not like accounts.

But I’m thankful to the people who have connected on medium and too. Thank you for being here! Thank you for having enough faith in Me & my work. Thanks for all the Support!

Thankful & Grateful to You!

Source: Instagram Screenshot by Monika Singh 
Really Grateful for such wonderful people!

Also, I’m trying to back on track after a much-needed social break.

It was necessary to restore my mental, emotional and physical energy so that I can serve what you guys are looking for in the form of content.

In the break time, I have tried something you’d love to read. Give it a try, If you suffer because of emotions and guilt 

Emotions, Guilt, and Suffering 

And yes, don’t forget to Subscribe to My FREE Newsletter for more helpful content!

Original Source: I got 3000 followers 

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The trust you have put in someone, have a very deep connection with loyalty. Then it does not matter, if it is personal life or professional life. 

Well, my dear reader, I admire your efforts, You have put in someone. But still I would like to tell you, It is not always your fault, if things do not work out. 

Often people do not value precious connections. They manipulate real meanings of conversations and people & they destroy valuable & precious Relations. 



Sometimes, we have to move ahead in the life, without many regrets. In fact leave those painful memories, incidents and regrets much behind. 

It is totally okay, if things did not work out. It is totally ok, if you have still tried to give several chances to something or someone, when 1000s of people were telling you that you are doing a huge mistake blindly. 

They were there to explain you on the basis of their experiences for your betterment. 


Okay! Now you have a broken heart, bad mental health, and sleepless nights. 

Now what? 
We can not change the past, but we can try to make our present better. 
It is totally okay, to execute another plan, if the previous one failed. It is totally okay, to make the present beautiful, regardless of painful past. 

Though, Loyalty is loyalty & it does not need any particular day for reminder & cherish the moments and precious Loyal people. 


Dedicated to You! 
Thank you for stopping bye! 
It was meant to be Published on Loyalty day, but I was not able to share! 

© Monika 

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Original Source: Loyalty, Relations and Trust 
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Though here is a little reminder and message I want to tell you out loud that: you can always reach out for help, when it is too much!

The very first thing I want to make clear is that, embrace your flaws, because no one is perfect. The only different perspective in the eyes of optimistic is — you can be perfect in someone's eyes!

But why! Here are reasons without any selfishness.


I have observed the fire of passion in you is really different, different from the hunger of just money. 

I know you love the journey of breaking societal limits & barriers, and that is really a good thing.

Not only this, you know how to give hope & spread light & smile, even though you are not even aware, that what's the depth of darkness.

Along with it, one more thing which makes you different is, does not matter how hard time you are having, you do not throw your problems on someone else, even the person is closest to you, or you know the Perspective can give you a helping hand and help you to move out from darkness.

I know you love hugs, whenever you are feeling low, though I do not know the reasons, but the good thing is, they work like magic for you.

Though here is a little reminder and message I want to tell you out loud that:

Sometimes it is totally ok to feel low, reach out and ask for a little favor.

You know, you can always reach out for help, when it is too much.

Keep this thing in mind, that taking responsibility does not mean you have to sacrifice yourself, or you have to wear a coat of toughness on your skin, mind & heart including emotions.

I want to remind you, you deserve a lot.

Do not forget to give credits to yourself, & loved one's, where ever it is due.

Life is not meant to do just work hard and work hard & earn money & spend money.

I want to remind you, you are worthy enough to enjoy the life, to spend time with the people who care for you & you truly care.

Not only that, I want to remind you to take enough breaks, when ever you feel on the verge of break down or even before that.

I want to remind you to move on from past life.

Not only that, but I want to help you to heal from all the wounds which are given by people you have trusted mistakenly.

I want to see you growing, healing, feeling little satisfaction & touching the sky.

Not only that, but I would like to accompany you until you will not find your true happiness, or someone who can support you & respect you, more than me.

Give little part of love to yourself too!


Dedicated to all the lovely souls out there & to the people I admire a lot!

When I was writing it, the perspectives in my mind were, my closed ones, including my Parents!

But when I was reading & arranging it, I realized that it goes for every Parent, partner, or someone who know how to love truly!

Share with the people you care! And do not forget to Celebrate Your Love.

Thank you!
© Monika

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I want to tell you out loud that - you can always reach out for help
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How complicated yet powerful Love can be in relationships, we can observe it in our daily life, and in the things near around us.

Book: Love Science — Psychology of attraction!
Author: Surajit Roy
Publisher: Notion Press
Pages: 100+


Book Review:

As there are different stages of love, classified on the basis of our life Journey.
Childhood, Teenage, Young age, and Old age.

In childhood, we are emotionally attached with our Parents, Siblings or someone who care for us a lot.

In teenage, we experience — friends love, feel infatuated or create stories about crushes in our head; which are most of the time 1 sided or our imaginations.

It is not the fault of teenagers. Books & movies make us like this.

As we move towards young age, there are two important factors:
1. Lust and 2. Companionship.

Though 2 person are never alike & for more than 90% people look seriously matter. They are influenced by Physical attraction, lust, sex, beauty and much more. That is why we can observe that a lot of Indian arrange marriages are painful. And in love marriages, love disappear after 3-4 months or 1-2 years.

If you are driven by companionship (rare people), then in such cases, Emotions, intimacy, Strong bond, Communication, Commitment, etc., matters a lot.

My take on Book Narration
It is doing great on Philosophical part & research based part. Along with it, it is also creating confusion and controversies too, as we all know love is different and vary from individual to individual.

Also, the songs lyrics are bringing 2 contexts. One is entertainment when we are in mood of enjoyment & another is feeling, understanding and the pain when we are feeling low.

The cover of book is expressing it clearly. Love is not like our imaginations or attractive & smooth like fantasies in romance novels or movies. It is complicated, messy and hard to connect and keep all the dots in 1 thread. It seriously needs care, and proper balance. 

Suggestions for Author:
Narration need to be more smooth. After half book & before last quarter. This book needs 1 more revision for proper flow.


How I feel while reading this?
It is really hard to digest a lot of opinions and facts without questioning. So, if we will not try to relate the things with our real life and surrounding, the things of romance fiction/ Bollywood movies will keep empowering our beliefs.

But the reality is: Love is one thing, and relationship is another. Love is free & form of freedom.  Relationships come with partnership & love.

How this book can be helpful for you?
Benefits: It can help you to understand, how to pick up right life partner, without many compromises and forcing your beliefs.

Recommended To: Those people who are looking forward to understanding what actually Relationships and Love are, in real life. I can not recommend this book to — beginners and hopeless romantic people who are empowered by escaping the reality.

I will share tips, factors, & more things in upcoming posts! 

Share with someone who is new in Relationships, or is dating someone or want to date. 

Get the Book: Book Link


© Monika


Original Source: Love Science — Psychology of attraction! Book Review
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The hunger to do more & to be more should always drive you, no matter how big you become.

Book Title: Shuttler's Flick - Making every match count
Pullela Gopichand with Priya Kumar
Author: Priya Kumar

This book is about Gopi Sir's philosophy of life and about winning. It can inspire you to lift yourself up in hard time, where you don't need anyone to console & lift you up.



Book Review

This story is inspired by real life incidents and more than that it is based on life Journey of Gopi (Badminton player and coach).

How he decided to keep playing when he feel the twist in his leg, at an awkward angle. And the second fall detached his knee and ankle. People were feeling it was the end of his Career. 

The sad part of life is - When you fall down, No one waits for your come back or support you. People move ahead without you or even thinking about you. 

This story describes the theme about which book is based on. Later, why you should give your attention to this story. 
(Of course, there is a big reason. Big injury, falling of career, passion, fire, grit, mental toughness, and much more to bring the life of a champion to even normal one). And then his establishments, achievements, coaching, success of students and much more. The rest is history.

The narration style is amazing. The word themselves are creating and igniting the fire in heart and mind. No, it's not about the motivation. But they ignite the fire of passion. A fire to give a proper direction to your mindset, passion, purpose, dreams, goals.

There is a small picture album about some of the emotional and major achievement of Gopi & his life. Marriage, achievements, academy, his students' achievements, etc.) It is creating more personal touch & the book story connects like, we feel connected to videos or with movies.

Each chapter, is ending with highlights of: Your Serve and Your Solitude, your truth. Giving it more simple touch and credibility.

I will keep talking about the insights in upcoming days. They are so amazing, you would like to highlight almost every second or third passage.

I have read 4 books by Priya Kumar. And every time when I read a new book written by her, I feel amazed & Stronger connection with her voice. And yet surprised, how she manages to write and give the proper flow in narration.

What I like: Narration style, more important the story, the spark of passion, and much more. I don't know if we'll be able to observe a movie or series about the same.

Recommended: I would like to recommend this book to every individual, who feel that their career is ended or their dreams & goals are shattered despite of being so many skills, higher education, capability and much more.

Thanks to Priya Kumar for this wonderful book & Amazing Story!


Get the book: Book Link 

I would like to ask you to propose this book for your Passion, and give it a space in your bookshelf, mind, life! 


© Monika

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Heal wounds and heal the world! Let us talk about healing today! What is healing?

After reading articles and posts of trusted creators I have realized that when people start feeling that their silence can be heard in this loud world, they start feeling good and comfortable and that is how their healing journey begins.


It is not that everyone is 100% perfect. Everyone has their wounds, cuts, scars, and people are looking for solutions to their problems.




In the last few days, I have realized that a lot of people who need solutions to problems, confuse the expertise for good solutions with the outer look. Like if they observe good graphic posts, then they misunderstand the content provided in it by the quality content and start considering it as the solution to their problem, which is not accurate.


Quality content is something, which resonates with your heart and soul. You can hear the voice of a creator in your head, you can feel those emotions in your heart; this is what a piece of content seems quality content for you.

They feel resonating with your thoughts and that is how the flow of positivity transforms towards you and that is how the healing begins. Well, I am not an expert about healing, but after passing from the ups and downs of my life in the last 5 years, I can say that sometimes it's ok to not be ok.


One day we heal, another day we are suffering. One day we are trying to do our best, another day people are trying to break us, and the cycle run continuously. No one is perfectly healed, people have to live the life journey instead of just surviving somehow. 

People have to live together, that's how they can heal together, and grow together.


Do not be selfish, do not shut out the important conversations, do not ignore important things.

You know, by doing such things you are only creating boundaries in your relations. By doing such things, you are only trying to separate or push those people who care for you. It is ok to feel hurt by other people's words. The only thing we can do is, just stop expecting from them. Everyone has a different mindset. If they want to see perfection in you, then make sure that they also seem perfect in your eyes. If not then don't take their words on your heart. You need better people in your life. No one is perfect. 


People need love, kindness, and support. Everyone's, needs are different. That is why compatibility matters a lot. Give your 100 percent towards the people, where you feel your silence can be heard. You need people who can support you, who can help you to move ahead and to live happily and enjoy this beautiful life instead of just surviving somehow.


What are your thoughts about the healing?


© Monika Singh


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Original Source: Healing happens in layers, hurting and healing | Moni

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Do you love Suspense stories full of conspiracy and struggle? Then probably this one is for you.

Book Title: Not Without Your Love

Author: Arvind Parashar


Before picking up this book, I was not aware that the author has written 23 books. And when you start reading the work of an experienced author, probably expectations are higher from the story.

This story starts with Noosh describing her light sleeping habits in the noisy city. Though she is pregnant, she is living alone & hoping to meet his love soon.

Noosh & Kabir are the main characters of the story. Kabir is a journalist & photographer. Kabir is from Bombay & Noosh is from Afghanistan. They've studied in the same College in Moscow, where they met. Noosh has returned to her hometown Herat, Afghanistan.

Kabir visits Afghanistan, to work on a secret mission. Afghanistan is the center point for the whole story. After a few days, Afghanistan brought conspiracy for Kabir, but how?





What I like:

The thing which won my heart, is I always say & strongly believe - 'Friendships that are built-in hard times last forever.

Now I don't know, I give credit to the author for this Statement or to myself. You might be aware if you're connected with me for a long time. Great coincidence, isn't it?

Though I don't believe more in love stories, because there is betrayal, manipulation at every stage. People nowadays consider that the biggest victory is getting married. But the actual struggle probably starts after it. But this story is something, whose ending can give satisfaction to your soul.

What I dislike:

Politics! Though I've no interest in the things which always disturb me. And when you're a person who is habitual of feeling words, it directly hit the head & of course a little disturbing too. 

Though we should not judge things, at first sight, I've picked this one by considering it a love story but it's more about politics, struggles & betrayal.

The book cover and title of the story can be more relevant to the story, as this doesn't seem completely fit.

I feel It was not an easy read for me. If you are comfortable feeling such triggered emotions (separation, betrayal, politics), in the journey of long-lasting love; you can go for it. 

Recommended For: Thriller lovers, who are comfortable with politics.

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The hardest thing for a writer is to give feelings to non-living words! But do you know real life has more feelings than fictional content? Writers write feelings & a lot of people only read words; & this is where we fail to understand what the person wants to say!

I'm saying this after completing a whole year here, interacting with people from different areas of the Nation & world too!


Because we are habitual of using our brains & hearts at wrong places & time. We use our brain when we should use our heart! & Our brains stop working when we need it to overcome emotional situations.

So, try to be practical! Don't close your eyes, when you observe something completely unexpected, instead be a keen observer! Because life is not completely fair. All knowledge, your past life experiences, your skills, your wisdom, your logic & capabilities can be tested when you're not prepared! And this is the thing I'm learning from the last 5 years, from my life!

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Treating people like they are just accounts, can help you to rock on social media only; which is not reality. It's only a part of real life. The things which can help us to cherish our real life are - genuine people & connections!
Don't forget that people you know today in real life, were strangers for you once! And people pretending to be your friends can be still strangers!

So, Social media is not to scroll & count your followers the whole day. It's to connect with amazing people & People having similar life experiences are rare! Don't give up on them, for betterment!

This is what I've realized when I've realized the importance of good & genuine people in my life. People are everywhere, but gems are not present everywhere!

Regards Monika

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In our daily life, we take most of our decisions on basis of our emotions, we judge people on basis of how we feel & not how they are.

In this journey of keeping lots of temporary people closer, we tend to lose lots of secret admirers, well-wishers, and good friends, knowingly or unknowingly.
Just because we do not feel that vibe, that we are similar and why? Because of our habit of taking decisions in hurry, random irrelevant advice; which are creating insecurities in our mind our hearts.


Everyone is unique in their way. And the way they live their life & treat people can be quite different. The way they accept people in their life can be different. Meanwhile, today's generation believes more in show off & loudness of words.

If you are an introvert like me, you can be lost like an invisible man.
Even if people know that socializing is exhausting for you & you also need lots of courage to even show up or start a conversation. But does not matter how hard you try, they are not going to notice your efforts. Because these things are so common for extroverts & your efforts are always negligible, for them.

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So, we are not similar.
If you are going to judge people in the first meeting, you can't observe a lot of hidden similar traits in them.
It may take several days or even months to identify people because people do not want to open up so easily if they do not want to repeat the mistakes of past life.

For example:
If I will keep my good sides in front of you first; probably you'll not be able to digest & ignore me!
If I'll keep my worst sides in front of you first; probably you'll avoid me. 
But, let me know - What is the point if I have to show my good sides to those, who are only going to use me.
What is the benefit of showing my worst sides - all the time, to those who are trying to fill colors in my life.

Let us keep it natural & genuine most of the time. You'll find the right people at right time.
The moment we realize the importance of self-love first, we can also realize the importance of good & genuine people; who know how to accept people as they're. Along with it, we also realize that if temporary people want to leave us, let them go.
Do not think that they will lose you. Careless & extremely selfish people are not going to care for you! Never!!!

What if I'll say, accepting differences is an art in which not everyone is good.
If you are observing differences in someone's behavior, that does not mean, that person is going to destroy your mental peace. It can be possible, that you'll end up learning a lot of things from that person. And based on differences, you can be genuine & good long-term friends.

I want to discuss more in-depth, but then you'll feel it lengthy. So, I'll describe it in my upcoming book. Till then, let me end it here with a few important words.

Mark the difference & Learn to accept differences. We both are unique. This is the thing, we need to accept.
I am not like you and you are not like me. But that does not mean I can not like you.
But, Human beings are controlled by their emotions, that's why lack of Common Sense is really common nowadays.
So, do not bother! learn to live for yourself first, learn to enjoy this beautiful life daily!
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I am Like You?
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Regards Monika Singh

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Have you ever felt that why people don't try to understand you?

When we hurt, we feel - only we're one, buried under sorrows & problems.
When we wanna run away from problems, we forget to heal ourselves.
Get up and look around you. Be a keen observer & good listener! You'll realize that you're not the only one.

In this blog post, you're going to know more about the book: My 2nd Girlfriend by Kailash Rajpurohit


Why I've picked this book?
The story seems so realistic & relatable to me. Of course, I've never been in a relationship. But we can't change few things in our life.
Either it's the habit of blind love in relationships, extra caring nature, fulfilling the dreams & more.
I found it relevant because of taking extra care & fulfilling my dreams.
But maturity hit us so hard. It teaches us to live in silence.
If you want to live your life happily, don't let everyone know that - you have a caring heart.
Learn to treat people, similarly - they treat you! But with common sense too, don't react quickly, without even knowing what's happening around you.


Book Review: My 2nd Girlfriend


When I was reading this book, thoughts in my mind & emotions in my heart were floating like a tsunami.

This book is about the story of Kailash, breaking out with his childhood to his teenage & then suddenly a mature teen, who was trying to clear the exam of this real-life, trying to fulfill his responsibilities, towards his parents & younger sister.
As he was not educated enough, & under 18 too, so he was struggling to find out work - not only to earn, but he wants to help his parents.

During the hard & struggling time ( whether it's about finance or emotions ) every small help seems like a big favor. After gaining experience from his first work, he has learned to take risks in life. He entered into an entrepreneurship journey & set up his own company with few friends. Meanwhile, when he was trying to scale it up, he incidentally met with a girl Riya. She entered his professional life as a client, later in his personal life as a girlfriend. And finally, she was important to him, so she got a 50% partnership in his company too.

This relationship started moving towards a love marriage. It was difficult, but they finally got married. But, this marriage failed, soon.
Because when we love someone, we forget to observe their real intentions. We only observe those things, which we want, like Bollywood style.

Someone has rightly said, to live a happy life, you need a compatible, caring, understanding partner & not blind love.
You can't create a home with immaturity, where people have more ego problems & grudges in their hearts. Where people are not ready to accept your family.

The same happened here, & this marriage failed. It breaks down Kailash. He struggled a lot, faced rough phases & finally he planned to heal himself.
In the journey of new life, he met his 2nd girlfriend. What happened next?
What's the ending of the story?
It was successful or not?

What I like :
Simplicity of narration
I wonder, how someone can portrait hidden pain in the heart so wonderfully.
Well, it was like a healing story for me.

Recommended: If you are someone, who has ever felt the love, either it's first or second; go for it. If you've ever faced heart breakups, doesn't matter whatever the reason is, go for it.

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𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲

The people you love to talk to more wanna spend more time, travel here & there, and enjoy a few moments; matter a lot to you. Obviously! & it is normal.
Of course, we love freedom & we don't want to compromise, that's why we want to spend most of our time with the people we love. Isn't it?
But are you on their priority list? Ask yourself !!!
Not always! Because they have also friends other than you, with whom they wanna enjoy & wanna support them at every step.

𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂

They are the ones who are there always with you when you need them during a hard time.
Take a pause, & think about those who are willing to take a step forward to help you. Sometimes, without even asking, just by observing the change in your behavior! They are gems.

Have you ever wondered, if there are always secret admirers in your life, who look up to you & always pray good things for you? They will not tell you always- how much they care. They will never try to gain your attention - always. But God knows how they suddenly appear in front of you when you truly need them.

And people you like and who like you back, are rare in your friend circle! They are not always the same but this is a basic human tendency.

I can proudly talk about such amazing gems, who like us more & I have learned to focus more on people: who care for me instead of those, to whom I care & I am still trying to learn it precisely & practically.

Both are necessary for our life, but those who care about us are amazing! And they must be on our priority list - always! They will never ask for it, but this is the only way - how you can care for them.

They do not disturb you every time, because they know that they are not your priority, but they still treat you like - you're their priority.

Mark the difference !! 
Let's stop chasing everything we like more & start chasing priceless & valuable relations & friends, who are important to us.

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For example:-
• How many of you care for those secret admirers - who silently support you, but are not seeking your attention?
• You like someone until they support you! When they suddenly disappear, you do not even care for them. Instead, you create a negative perception of them.
How many times, you have asked them: Are you ok?

Who is your top priority?
Share with someone & let them know that you care!

Written by Monika Singh
From www.moniread.in
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Social media influencers in marketing need more mental health awareness!

If a particular thing has some great advantage, then on the other side, there may be disadvantages too. Excess of everything is harmful. So keeping these things in mind, this blog post is designed and it is about a few worst things related to social media.


Here are 19 things with reasons and explanations:-

1. Lack of proper guidance.

Proper Guidance is necessary at every stage of life. So it also plays an important role when it is about social media. If not then the outcomes will be only: wastage of time and energy. Think what can be the results, if someone may give you the exact roadmap of traveling; it'll be easier to reach the destination, right? The same thing is applicable here also, for creators. That's why, search for those people, who can give you proper guidance. And do not take it from every random person, who himself is not aware of his life.

2. Few honest feedbacks.

Honest feedbacks are necessary for great success. But those who provide honest feedback are very rare. If you ever find out them, keep them closer to yourself. Maybe sometimes, you may feel like, probably your work is perfect, but still, it may need a lot of analysis; and that's why honest feedbacks are necessary.

Also, keep the logical brain active. Any random person can give you feedback or suggestion with flirty, cheesy, and attractive lines and emojis. Now it does not mean that feedback is genuine and good for you, always. I have observed so many genuine people, whose intentions and words speak more than most popular and emotional emojis and buttering. Their honesty is more heartwarming rather than comments left just to show off or to manipulate.

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3. Irrelevant suggestions.

Often people start giving random suggestions, and they can divert your mind from actual goals. They will give every piece of random suggestion, except that one, which you need in your life, to grow more.


4. Every follower is not your fan.

If you are trying to measure your growth through the number of followers and number of likes; then this is not the actual growth. It is not necessary that each follower wants good things for you, every time. Also, most people are temporary on your followers' list too. So stop considering them as your fam. Maybe there can be spammers, detectives as well. Who wants to keep a sharp eye on your activities, intentionally. So it is not necessary to share things about your personal life, publicly. Those who provoke you to post about your problems publicly, try to maintain a safe distance from them.


5. The unbalanced ratio of users and creators.

Social media is a very powerful tool, which is meant to consume and create content. Even those who are at the top, in the list of creators, are also users and audiences. They also do likes, comments on posts of their niche and healthy competitors. So simple conclusion is this, be a user, if you want to be a creator, else who is going to check out your content?

Nowadays, social media is also strict day by day. And it is keeping a sharp eye on your activities too. So try to keep your activities as much as humanly you can, instead of robots behavior.

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6. Data insecurity.

The biggest issue is the insecurity of data. Selling of data sucks those, whose informations get leaked. Even nowadays, people have started stealing pics, and later using them for public harassment, by doing alterations either through graphic designing or simply a little bit of editing.


7. Scroll scroll scroll

Your audience is key to success for you right? But The time of attraction is very very low, often 3-8 seconds. And this is when you'll be able to hold them on your posts or videos. Probably this information may help you to save your time by next time, whichever you give, to design every single post and in the editing of every video. You can understand the pain, but users do not.


8. If you are a creator, you have less time to consume the data of other creators.

This is the most common mistake. Often because of lack of time and sometimes because you do not want to help the other fellow creators, because of fear of competition. You may satisfy yourself by doing so, but it may also negatively affect you.


9. No target audience.

When we have not fixed any particular niche then we have a scattered audience. And this is the main reason behind the lower engagement also. Maybe you have observed a lot of people having followers in thousands, but their engagement ratio is sometimes even less than 0.1 percent. I observe this thing when I received DM from an account having more than 6000 followers, but having less than even 6 likes on almost every post.


10. Social media addiction.

Being a creator, you may have high hope for success, from your audience too. And this is going to make you addicted to social media. How many hours you are spending on one social media platform, check it out today? Later check out the total time you are spending on all social media platforms, you are active on!


11. People are ready to take advantage.

This is for those creators who have a good heart or who are habitual of forgiving people. If you want to achieve great heights with happiness in your life, then: Keep your goodness only for those who deserve it. Not everyone deserves it. You have to learn about it, where you have to be good and where you can use your attitude or say a big No to those who are there only to use you. But be humble enough, until you have no idea about the actual intentions of people.

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12. More self-image concern.

Often I have observed a lot of people, who try to be extra nice with strangers. Do not reveal the best side of the heart to everyone. It is ok if you are the same in your personal life, but if not, then do not try to live a double standard life. You may be fed up soon with it, and it may result in a loss of your inner Peace.


13. Emotional side effects.

Tough competition, getting smaller results in comparison to input, and the negativity which you receive on social media about your content. These things may create emotional issues. Does not matter how hard Hearted you try to seem, but they affect you. Few feel it less and few up to more extent.


14. High suicidal rates.

This is so common nowadays, but people ignore this thing generally. But social media can be the major cause of most suicidal cases.


15. The ratio of genuine followers/ audience is low.

You have to search out for genuine people, and they are hardly 1 % to 5%. Build a genuine relationship with them. You can find out them by way of their actions, not communication, as nowadays, a lot of people are so good at manipulation. So keep a closer eye, maybe it may take a longer time to find them out, but you have to keep patience level. Who knows, how your mutual discussion can result in great outcomes of ideas and later grand success.


16. Uncontrollable cyberbullying.

This is at the highest peak and it seems it is uncontrollable. Maybe people start it for fun or to pull down someone publicly. It later seems like the most unwanted problem of our life. This problem does not even stop here. People target you intentionally, try to manipulate the meaning of your messages and comments! Fix this thing in your mind that your messages in chats are not always in between two people. Doesn't matter how much respect you give to that person, still one day you probably find it out that your conversations were shared almost everywhere.

And if they were shared by manipulative purpose or misrepresentation of your character, then this is a serious offense, even more, dangerous than hateful comments. You do not need to maintain relations with such people, who are there just to harm your dignity and self-respect.

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17. Competition.

Competition is there in the market and already a lot of people are struggling because of it. It results in frustration and jealousy generally. Healthy competition is necessary also, but one which can support you, not that one which results in jealousy and depression. Stop comparing yourself to others. You can be your best competitor.


18. Jealousy.

Jealousy is the evil root of destruction. Unintentionally people start feeling jealous of other creators, and they start spreading hate and negativity for them. Maybe they forget that they may look cool for a few moments, later they are going to harm themselves only, by doing so.


19. Negativity. 

If you are a creator, who posts things related to Motivation, inspiration, hope, good things; then for sure you are getting a lot of DM's like me:- related to negativity about you, your thinking, differences in your thinking, and many more things. Sometimes it results in anxiety and depression, and emotional heartbreaks too.


To keep it short only 19 points are discussed here. If your response will be great on this post, I'll post the second part of this post soon.

Have a nice day!

By Monika Singh

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