Moni Read

Happy 2 years, as an active Creator! I am feeling so Happy & grateful. Thank you dear people, for making it possible for me to stay here, and to give me a healthy hope about what I have to do next. 

Before these positive vibes, I have also gone through the journey of negative vibes, self-doubt and felt like a loser several times, where my patience was tested badly.

Because, When you feel, almost everyone who has started their journey with you, is already on their next milestone, and you are the only one lagging behind; you feel separated & lost the sense of belonging to that Community. 

Because, things are not same like they were before. And you are not alone, who face this problem. People often leave the less successful people behind, because of many reasons. 

Though I am grateful that I have met amazing people here, who decided to follow me, connect with me, listen me, read my content & support like I have never thought.

But on other side, I have lost a lot of connections too! Lost some, because I have written long comments, & lost some, because I failed to comment. Lost some, because I was still trying to connect genuinely, when they have now many 1000s of other people like me; & lost some because I was not able to reply them instantly. So, the community I was trying to build, was not based on win-win situations. 

And because of this, I was Trapped in the fear of investing time in people, only to see them go, when they will hit a certain milestone! And this was continuously draining my energy. 

And this is how, I am getting motivation, to diverse my source of income and building other assets! And I am finally, trying to find a balance between being a User & Creator. 

We have to reach our next milestone - multiple digits of Money earning, instead of just followers! Because they can not pay bills by just number of followers. 

Now, how I can be more thankful to these amazing People! Thanks for being part of my Creators Journey! 

The trust you have put in someone, have a very deep connection with loyalty. Then it does not matter, if it is personal life or professional life. 

Well, my dear reader, I admire your efforts, You have put in someone. But still I would like to tell you, It is not always your fault, if things do not work out. 

Often people do not value precious connections. They manipulate real meanings of conversations and people & they destroy valuable & precious Relations. 

Sometimes, we have to move ahead in the life, without many regrets. In fact leave those painful memories, incidents and regrets much behind. 

It is totally okay, if things did not work out. It is totally ok, if you have still tried to give several chances to something or someone, when 1000s of people were telling you that you are doing a huge mistake blindly. 

They were there to explain you on the basis of their experiences for your betterment. 

Okay! Now you have a broken heart, bad mental health, and sleepless nights. 

Now what? 

It is totally okay, to execute another plan, if the previous one failed. It is totally okay, to make the present beautiful, regardless of painful past. 

Though, Loyalty is loyalty & it does not need any particular day for reminder & cherish the moments and precious Loyal people. 

I was a chubby but healthy kid. Probably you have observed people, whose face turn Red when they laugh (like tomato). 

Because Childhood & teenage is a stage, where we are less or not stressed at all about Life. If we are, we ignore it, because keep moving ahead is our ultimate step.

But last few years were full of ups & down. I have quickly lost weight because of city & hostel life, and quickly gain it in last one and half years (lockdown, & then homemade food) Indian Mom's serve more, when they feel, we are not looking fit & strong. Probably I used to eat more, when I used to feel stressed; or I used to eat more often as a care free girl.

Any ways, as we start focusing more on career life, we start ignoring our sitting hours, eyes, physical & mental health! It happened to me too. Being an engineering student, screen time is a part of your life! 

And especially when you are focusing more on Artificial Intelligence, you have to focus more and more on screen. Along with it, when you have to type, and create content for your lovely readers, it results in less breaks for eyes & body and more stress too.

So, I hope you are able to understand, how unhealthy habits we develop, or we start sacrificing our own health for career.

It was last month, I have decided to stay fit. And you know what, I am working on it. I focused on Changing my diet foods, eating habits & trying to stick to sleeping routine. And, I got this book: The New Me. And here I would like to share its review for you guys!

This book is so much insightful packed in 80 pages. The value & knowledge is simple & short, still overflowing. Basically, what I would like to say is: Fewer words - more sense!

It was one day, Author realized that he now have to take medications. And when he realized, if he will start taking them, there is no going back; He was concerned, serious & more active about his health.

He took 90 days challenges, and what he found is, after 90 days he is fit & fine according to all medical tests, and he doesn't need medications now.

So, in this book, he has shared how to set up these 3 months challenge, what we have to do, what not, eating habits, food, diets, minor things like sleeping habit & drinking water, etc. And much more.

So I required this book, so I am not saying how much insightful this is as a book lover. I am sharing, how much valuable it is, according to a person who is now on her health fitness Journey! And Hoping to share some behind the scenes about fitness Journey soon!

Recommended To: those who are trying to take their physical health seriously.